“Being Child”

Every Child is special and every child is normal, it always depends on how parents perceive their siblings and how they project their children in front of outer world and in front of their own.

A child has his own virtual world at some point of  life where he or she is not a son or daughter, but act as parents of thier own, they tends to replicate the same Parenthood what we had projected as a parent on them.  If we act a friend to them they would be acted friendly to themselves, if we curse to them, they himself curse to his own. It’s always a gun battle for the child between expectations of parents Vs. his own perception.

Expectation from a child is an indigenous and natural process for parents, but meeting the expectation for the child from the parent perspective is not at all easy what it looks like.

Parents always keep their Eyes on the top when they set benchmark for their children’s, be it in studies or extracurricular activity or even on his carrier too. Every parent wants their children to be on the Pinnacle of so called ladder of the competition, Irrespective of what their children wanted to become. We should have a Serious thought on this issue, why we are programming our own child to lay there life on specific algorithm and deliver the predefined results keeping the standard examples in concern.

It’s true and obvious that all parents want their children to live a happy Life where all there wants and wishes would be fulfilled without any Hurdles and struggle, In doing so they acted as a toughened shield between their children and day to day struggle of Life, but isn’t they are making their children more dependable and vulnerable. In Most of the cases they don’t want their children to be part of the real learning of life.

Let’s Make them hear the noise of their own Voice, Let them see the colors of their own Life, Allow them to move from their own comfort, feel the scratch of the real world, make them fight with their inner soul.Childhood is the biggest classroom for children, and themselves are the best teachers, no formal education or any other alternative means of education can provide that efficient learning.

We had spent our best time of life in childhood and always feels Nostalgic when memories recirculated in the mind, It’s always an unfilled fantasy of every Individual to live his childhood again if getting a chance to live, where life is without expectations, commitment, fear, Sorrow , reprise.

Being a parent of children’s is another chance of Living a childhood again, All the fantasy of Being a child could be able too comes true if we allow our children to live his or her childhood to fullest. As a parent it’s our perspective to provide all the ways and means to our children in their childhood, and that’s the real parenthood.

At this juncture of Life we as a parent lives a very monotonous and robotic life, where each and Every part of life is a complex matrix interwoven by responsibility, Expectation, Carrier, Goals, Liabilities and all other Non-Hygienic motivational factor. Indulging too much in these, we sometimes neglecting our own chance to live a childhood again in our child, and the worst we try to shadow our life style to our child.

No Matter how much Favorable circumstance come in life of Child, it’s impossible to get another chance to crawl, to create utter nonsense, to accomplish the Kid dish fight, creating owns virtual World, sense of accomplishment on notorious demands.  

As a parents it’s our Moral Responsibility to not mechanize our own children’s childhood as a Machine ….Lets Make them to Live it to Fullest………………………………….